Someone once asked me “What’s the secret to a happy marriage?” and my answer was simple… Love your wife and treat her better than you will treat yourself. Why this is applicable to both husband and wife, and each partner must strive to express love and affection to their partner, being the husband, it’s important that you take the initiative and show your wife love all the time.
No marriage is without it’s issue, but striving to become better at loving your wife is the bedrock for a successful marriage. So how do you love your wife or show her you love her? We have put together an infographic outlining 19 things you should be doing on a regular basis. While some of these 19 things are obvious like telling her she is beautiful, some might be a little odd like “Get Jealous”. Here are 19 things you should be doing for your wife on a regular basis. Click picture for a larger view.
19 Things You Should Be Doing For Your Wife on a Regular Basis
1. SURPRISE HER : If you want to show your wife how much she means to you, then create a surprise you know that she will love and don’t wait for a special occasion to do it.
2. TELL HER SHE IS BEAUTIFUL : Tell your wife that she is beautiful every day, don’t just tell her when she has gotten ready to go out and is looking her best.
3. TREAT HER : Your wife does a lot for you, she stands by your side, and takes care of you and the house. Take time to treat her to something she will love.
4. TAKE HER OUT : Don’t wait for a special occasion to take your wife out, instead, plan regular date nights and days out.
5. LISTEN TO HER : Women love to talk, but more importantly that like it when you really listen to them. Learn to listen and respond to your wife.
6. RESPECT HER : No woman wants to feel, as though, their husbands are judging them or belittling them so learn to respect her wishes even you don’t agree.
7. SHOW AN INTEREST IN HER’S : If your wife has a hobby or something she likes to do, then don’t wait for her to bring it up, ask her about it and show her that you are interested in it
8. KISS HER : Don’t always wait for her to make the first move, show her how irresistible you find her by stealing a kiss, often.
9. ASK HER ABOUT HER FRIENDS : Okay, so you might not know what the curly haired one is called, but your wife will still appreciate you inquiring about whether she is well or not.
10. LET HER HAVE FUN : If your wife wants to go out with friends, then don’t make her feel bad for leaving you at home, make sure she knows that you want to her have fun.
11. GET JEALOUS : Getting a little jealous occasionally shows that you still care about your wife and that you think she is good enough to be stolen by somebody else.
12. GIVE HER SPACE : Don’t suffocate your wife by always being around her, plan a night out with the guys and let her have some time to herself.
13. ALWAYS HAVE HER BACK : It doesn’t matter whether your wife started the argument or if she is simply trying to finish it, you should always have her back, even if you think she is in the wrong.
14. SUPPORT HER DREAMS : It doesn’t matter whether your wife’s dreams are to lose weight or to open a theme park, you are her husband and it is your responsibility to support your wife and her dreams.
15. RESPECT HER FAMILY : Your mother in law might be a monster in law, but she is still your wife’s mother and you should always remember that.
16. TALK OPENLY TO HER : Women respect men who can talk openly about their feelings and fears. Be open to your wife.
17. TELL HER YOU LOVE HER : Don’t assume your wife knows you love her. Tell her you love her always. Kiss her forehead and remind her how much lost your without her.
18. PLEASE HER : Show your wife just how much you desire her, by taking her to the bedroom, but don’t expect anything in return.
19. PROTECT HER : Women look up to the people who are willing to defend them and this is exactly what you want. Protect her always.